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  • Heather Kirk

    This is a beautifully written and devastating story. I'm very sorry for your loss. Reading this makes me remember to appreciate all the time I am able to spend with my loved ones.

  • Renea Hanna

    i just found myself thinking about this very thing this morning. about how i like to look back at the messages my love and i have shared since early in our relationship. they make me smile. and i wondered one day if they would make me cry, instead. this made me cry. it also makes me appreciate what i have, here and now, all the more. because NOW is all we ever have, isn't it? thank you for sharing this touching and moving piece. <3

  • Erika Mauersberger

    Thank you. I know I've done the she thing with my late husbands emails and I'm pretty sure my daughter does it aswell. Glad to know I'm not alone. It keeps him oralittle bit of him alive

  • Rebecca Stenberg

    Thank you for sharing this - it is wonderfully (emotionally) written!! I am so very sorry for your loss. I, too, am thankful for memories preserved through technology (Gchat/Gmail) and feel grateful for the ability to turn to that technology when I need to. Sometimes I need to remind myself not to live there. I pray for that for you, as well.

  • ChrisCallahan

    wow--- as someone who recently went through divorce and later my girlfriends mothers death from cancer--- i really appreciate you sharing this. i cant imagine what you went through but your relationship reads beautifully in this article...